How To Enjoy Anal Sex — 7 No-Pain Tips For Beginners
Anal sex can be such a fun, exciting, and super-pleasurable experience. However, anal sex has a bad name, and some people try to avoid having anal sex altogether because they are worried about it being painful.
Wondering how to enjoy anal sex so you can have a fun, pleasurable experience?
We have put together this guide on how to prepare for anal sex — it will teach you exactly how to get ready for anal sex with your partner.
The reason so many people never want to try anal sex with their partner is because they think it will be messy, unsexy — or even unsafe.
Follow these guidelines while you prepare and you will never have to worry about it being messy or unsexy so you can focus on how to enjoy anal sex with your partner.
1. Only have anal sex if you're excited to try it (not because someone convinced you).
One of the biggest problems when preparing for anal sex is that guys can develop an obsession with it. It could be because he's curious, he wants to tell his friends "I've had anal " — or it could be any other reason.
It's perfectly fine and normal for men to like anal but you absolutely should never feel forced, coerced, or convinced to have anal sex. Just because your partner is interested in anal sex doesn't mean that you have to be interested too.
If you really don't want to try anal then don't. It's as simple as that. But if you do, that's great too — just move on to the next step to help you prepare.
2. Understand that anal sex feels very different than vaginal sex.
Obviously, anal sex feels quite different from vaginal sex. For the receiver, the feeling can be quite unpleasant at first, especially if your partner doesn't understand how your anatomy works. That's why finding time to relax and come to terms with how it will feel beforehand is important.
3. Prep and clean your body (all of it).
Start by making sure to use the bathroom and take a shower. In the days leading up to anal, it's a good idea to avoid any food that will give you a loose stool