PORNSTARS EXPOSED 2
Sex Myths You Should Stop Believing.
Vibrators will ruin sex for you.
While too much of a good thing can be too much, casual use of your vibrator a few times a week isn’t going to make you lose feeling or desensitize you from sex with a human being. If you need some new vibe recommendations.
All women can orgasm through intercourse.
According to a study done by the Kinsey Institute, 20 to 30% of women don’t have orgasms during intercourse alone. Don’t feel ashamed to tell your partner when something isn’t working, or if you need some stimulation elsewhere. This is your time, too — don’t let porn or anyone else tell you otherwise.
An orgasm is always like a firework going through your body.
This can totally be the case (good for you!), but it isn’t always that way, and that’s okay. Orgasms can range from an explosion throughout your entire body to something quieter and less intense. Don’t compare previous orgasms to each other. Your orgasms are like snowflakes; they’re all unique.
Withdrawal is an alternative to birth control or condoms.
We get it, the hormones from birth control had you crying into a tub of Ben and Jerry’s, and condoms can be extremely uncomfortable and awkward. The “pull out method” is pretty tempting. However, it’s important to know the risks associated. Withdrawal is only 78% effective, according to Planned Parenthood, while hormonal birth controls are all over 90% and condoms are 85% effective. It’s also not often performed correctly, making it even less effective. The most effective way to prevent pregnancy is to double up and use two different forms of your birth control methods, so using withdrawal as a second method to your hormonal BC is a better option.
Sex Myths You Should Stop Believing.
Only men watch porn.
Nope. That’s all I have to say. Just kidding! But seriously, this one is a huge myth. According to Pornhub, women make up a fourth of its users. January 21, 2017 (the day of the Women’s March), Pornhub saw a drastic drop in viewers, up to 20% in big cities like DC, NYC, and LA. Women are watching porn, and they’re becoming less afraid to admit it. As they should be! Not only can porn be an enjoyable experience, it’s a great way to discover more about what you may or may not like sexually. There are a lot of sex myths within the realm of porn itself, however, so be aware of these and take everything with a grain of salt.
The hymen breaks the first time you have sex, causing pain and bleeding.
The whole “popping your cherry” thing teenage me was terrified of isn’t 100% the truth. There is tissue in your vagina, but there isn’t some wall that needs to be broken the first time you have intercourse. Some women do have intact hymen when they first have sex; however, some can damage theirs as easily as by going horseback riding. Although it can be for some women, sex for the first time doesn’t have to be painful.
All STIs have symptoms.
Just because you don’t notice any change in your body, it’s still important to get tested for STIs regularly and to use condoms, especially before and after new partners. Chlamydia, Gonorrhea, Human Papillomavirus (HPV), and herpes sometimes show no symptoms in women. Most people think of these infections, like herpes, and just think painful, red bumps, but not everyone gets those. Getting tested often prevents any surprises, and if something is off, it can be treated ASAP.
Too much sex will ruin your vagina.
Also the size of your partner, how vigorous the sex is, and having babies. The vagina is incredibly elastic — let’s remember that a baby is meant to go through that thing. It will always go back to its normal size though due to this elasticity. Having a baby can change it slightly, but kegel exercises can help. Clench the same muscles you would use to stop a stream of urine and hold for ten seconds. Repeat that about 10 to 20 times twice a day, and you should notice better orgasms in about a month!
The average-size penis is about five inches, and the average vagina is about three to four inches. Do the math, people! There are so many ways to make sex fun without the pressure of size. We don’t want men to expect us to look like porn stars, so we can’t expect them to either. Whether it’s changing up positions or trying something new, a smaller size doesn’t have to lack pleasure for either you or your partner.